Love , Culture, Society

A long waited subject of mine to write on this forum.O sorry there is no forum because except me only 2 person may read this blog, one is my wife and another is my friend chotu.( whom I follow & vice versa... ha ha ha ...)
Ok Ok .. still then I will write for my '' Ander ki Saanti '' ..
Love unites people - simple definition. All others definition adds to this. I think so.If Love does anything other than this then you have ample evidence to suspect it as love or somewhat else instead. Culture is developed to nurture and cultivate more love in us and propagate the message of love , I think.And again same philosophy applies here also that if it does not deliver the same function at some particular time then we have to get rid of such culture and restructure our culture or thinking. -a group of people who have some culture of some sort(any) and each is having love and compassion to each other. And again if the Society you see is anything other than this then that is something else than Society.
What I want to say is that simpler in many ways. Only thing is that we see it in many complex manners.In love we always tried to find loopholes. In culture we always try to forget that it subject to time,which is always changing.So must be the Culture.And similarly in Society we always try to forget the basic bonds that cause a society to form. We took pride of being called as a society but do a little to improve our societal values.
I am not here to say that everything we are doing till now are negative .. We are doing something , still there are rays of hopes which are still waiting for us to be explored.The Society should be rethinking over the culture it nurtures till date and the culture should be such that the basic pillar of it should be Love.(Uniting People)--- I love the Times of India Initiative ''AMAN KI ASHA''- which bolsters our basic societal values in result developing a new time based culture and propagates love among us.....

Refreshing Movie-AJAB PREM KI GAJAB KAHANI

Quite A few years ago I fell into love in similar way the hero get into in this movie.I love this movie because of the innocence that the protagonist conveys through his acting.I love the way he handles his character and also the opposite lady.
The memorable thing is that in 2001 November only I found myself in fully love with this girl.SO many years after I am with her.we did not realize.The dates I don't remember them. I wish I could.
Chiki -my love of that era is now my lovely wife.we both twinkled when we saw the propose scene in the film.I love her.Quite refreshing. I just feel the same way I felt years back in college when I die for a glimpse of her hair strands at least if not the face.That will be big story if i would start here..So, leave it.. I am happy watching with her. And also I feel I am very very lucky to get my love with me for my rest of life...Rest of the things I don't want to write ...But full of feelings...
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This special dots are for my love.
Blank spaces filled with sea of love...

Blogging or Twitting

I am just thinking of the Title of the story I am going to write. Sorry this is not a story. I am confused because I just want to write down something .My life is missing something. I know when everything comes to you as per your wish, then this type of  misery occurs.I really need some adventure or risk in my life.I have to do something.

This blog is more or less like a twitter account for me. I really dont understand why I am writting all the bullshit.
I heard that if you are an expert of something then you can use blog as a source of income for yourself.So  what  kind of expert I am . I studied some subject for 4 long years. I never can boast of being an expert of that subject.

This blog is like a diary of me. I just keep tracing it to find out where did I hang out last Sunday or last year same day.

LEON- The Hit-Man(Movie Just I saw)

I have just seen this film.Just love the way those two characters mathilda and leon act in the film.. I just can not remember the male actors name. but i saw many films of him fighting ,defending.But this time emotions are stronger part to play in his role. and He did justice to his part.. I really loved watching his movie.
A strange kind of love story it wants us to tell through the film. I can not digest , but just can no ignore it- it may also happen  like many other unexpected things in our life.
i love one or two dialogue of this movie also- mathilda asked "do you like it".leon responded yes. then mathilda queried then say it..And another instance Mathilda asked  whether life is such a hard only in childhood days or forever?Leon responded coolly it is hard forever.
That is very true.Life is always like that. it is not simple as we most expect from it.

Mishap Month

When I recall the same months of 2008 it horrifies me .Those were the saddest part of my early marriage life . My wife had a surgery due to her nail infection. Her nail got stuck inside the hinge of the sector-12 bathroom door,when we are rushing for a temple .lesson#1- NEVER hurry.
After nail removal operation she was continuously crying for at least 7 days.I  am such a pathetic viewer at those point of time. I was just seeing those pains of her,but can not share it.Lesson#2-Be careful, because if your not then anything can go wrong at any time . And the pain (physical ) will be born by only one person, that is you, no other person can share with you.
This year My wife is suffering from some pain in her right arm.No such reasons are obtained,yet to see a specialist.It was there for a long time now. perhaps one month.So  we have to be care full now.

Mishaps-A cyclic process?

I really don't know why some days  seem to be so gloomy out there.Because of incidents which we don't desire.

Day before yesterday I fell down while working and on that same day my neighbour ,who is my batch mate here,also met with some minor accident during duty.It is just a coincidence or what?

I did not care about the sprain I receive by the twist of my ankle but  3 hrs later I find myself miserable.I have to go to hospital as i can't bear the pain at all.It was a sever sprain doctor reported.

One year before aprrox in the same time my wife got injured in her right thumb.It was so severe that she had to undergo nail-removal operation.It was pathetic .I was feeling her pain but could not do anything to soothe her.That was really horrible for me. I hated blood for years. But when I stand near her for her nail operation, I saw the whole bloody thing in front my eyes. I could not let my wife to see those things although she was insisting-crying out of pain .

I drifted away from my topic perhaps.Today again , when I am recovering from my sprain, my neighbour's son had fallen from TV stand (low height),and started crying for hours.To find out what happens to him took us half an hour as he is too small to speak for himself.After doctor's consultation it found out to be  a joint dislocation case .So after his cure he is now ok, his father is also ok with his small accident . I am recovering fast. Tomorrow I may join duty.

So some days  are really bad for some reasons.And so coincidental that we forced to ponder a little.But still I believe that it is not a cyclic process or coincidental ,it just happens once in a while just to remind us to be careful(Watch Your Steps).

Happy Days

These are in real terms can be called as the happy days of my life, because I feel all critical parameters are in a balance nowadays.But One thing is missing in these parameters.And I feel very hard to explain it.We-me and my wife are happy because we both are contributing towards our life's enjoyment.We are trying to make our life seem to be happy situation.
But there is something which I am missing. I don't know that. But I personally feel doing such a mediocre job(not in financial terms) all along my life ,should I feel satisfied with that?Did I miss something from my life?
Do I expect something else from my life?Then what is that... perhaps I know,may be I don't know. But There is something which I have to do along with these normal ones which I have to do for our livelihood.
Something which I long for is happiness in my heart-mind-body-soul system.Not just seem to be happy enough.